You Are What You Think - Self-Dictate Mentality of Building a Charismatic Character

Our mind can be our biggest treasure of all time, buthow Tan Sri Syed Mokhtar Al-Bukhari starts as a
also can be the most destructive mechanism everhumble trader to become one of the wealthiest
known to mankind. Paradigm of thinking usuallypeople in Malaysia. And we've seen how Lim Goh
reflects education level and environmental surroundingTong build his empire out of sheer determination and
where one grew up. Such authoritative figure inpositive thinking, despite illiteracy in terms of reading
commanding your behavior that will eventually formand speaking.
your attitude and habit.A mind that is trained to accept certain paradigm for
When life pushes you to the submission, your mindthe next 30 days will subconsciously create an
will be the most receptive sense to the force. Aauto-behavior of an attitude that will blend with
fragile mind will simply conclude that it's out of controlmentality to form a specific habit. Ever wonder
thus leading towards acceptance. In extreme cases,whether you can change the mentality that has been
mind tends to find the simplest yet fatal decisionembedded in your life for about a quarter of
making, i.e death. The pressure of life, the burden ofcentury? It can be done, but the first obstacle is
responsibilities, and the perception of society - all arediminishing the old negative habits that have become
ingredients of disaster if one can't handle with care'thick' and hard to knock down. It's like an old
and proactive mentality.cliché 'old habits die hard'. To replace these
On the brighter side, a tough mind that constantly'thick' habits, a constant discipline, dedication and
fuelled with positive reinforcements (i.e positivedetermination to make it through is one hell of a fight
thoughts, positive attitudes) tend to control thingsthat needs reinforcements (i.e continuous education,
which is within one's power, accepting that biggerhaving a mentor, etc).
force is something one has to face, but with creativeIt's true that a sarcastic mentality might argue with
thinking open up creative problem solving possibilities.such statement of 'it's easier said than done'. I myself
Yes, it's better said than done, the tougher part ishave been in this position many times. But it's you
usually to keep the consistency of thinking.who can judge the effectiveness of this psychology
We've seen how Thomas Edison's determinationmethod, simply by proving it through application in
finally put a huge benefit to the society as one ofyour life. In laymen term, 'walk the talk'.
the greatest gift for human mankind. We've seen