| Why do men pull away emotionally? That's one | | | | he's feeling too. |
| question that many women search for an answer to. | | | | We view relationships and their development very |
| It's very difficult to understand. When you get close | | | | differently than men do. We see all his flaws and |
| to a man, things may seem to be moving in a | | | | insecurities as being charming and endearing. Men |
| forward and positive direction. Then suddenly he pulls | | | | aren't that way at all. If you come across as being |
| back and you're left feeling very alone and confused. | | | | overly jealous or you are always talking to him about |
| You begin to question whether the things he said | | | | your problems, he sees that as extra relationship |
| about what he felt for you were true. You may | | | | weight that he isn't prepared to be carrying so soon. |
| even start to wonder about your own ability to trust | | | | The fact is that in the very early days of a new |
| again. It's a messy situation and unless you really | | | | relationship you're being tested on a continual basis. |
| understand why this happens, you'll never be able to | | | | How you handle even the most seemingly insignificant |
| deal with it effectively. | | | | situations will have a strong bearing on whether he |
| The question of why men pull away emotionally isn't | | | | chooses to pursue you more. Many men let their |
| confined to just one answer. Most women don't | | | | guard down and then pull back when they see |
| realize how fickle men are in the beginning of a | | | | something, even something apparently |
| relationship. You may feel that things are so | | | | inconsequential, in the woman that they find |
| comfortable that you let your true feelings show too | | | | unappealing. |
| soon. This can happen when a woman blurts out the | | | | Anytime you make a mistake, even one that you |
| words, "I love you" before her guy is ready to hear | | | | view as insignificant, it can lead to him pulling back |
| it. Another common reason why men pull back is that | | | | from you. Men are typically in search of an ideal mate |
| intimacy happens too soon for them. He may have | | | | so if you do anything that doesn't fit into that mold, |
| been the active pursuer but once he had you, his | | | | you may find yourself feeling emotionally very alone. |
| attitude can change dramatically. You obviously feel | | | | It's difficult, but unfortunately it's a part of |
| discarded and confused when your guy pulls back, | | | | relationships that we sometimes have to deal with. |
| but you also have to take into consideration what | | | | |