The Power of Association - Who You Hang Around With Has an Effect on You

One reason many people are where they're at islike to be like. Make sure they match your values and
because of who they associate with the most. That'sbeliefs; otherwise it will be a struggle for you and
especially true when those people are groupedeventually may backfire. Sometimes your beliefs may
together - as in a gang or a business organization. Ifchange according to the group's influence on you.
there's a leader within the group, then there's aThat's unless your beliefs are too strong.
tendency to want to follow that person. It could beYou can start looking for higher level associations
anybody that stands out.over the internet or even be invited to a meeting.
Another aspect of associating with certain people isThat includes going to a networking event. For
that you will change according to the five people youexample: if you want to be an actor, then meeting
are with most of the time. It's been stated that wesuccessful actors is where you want to be. Find out
are all the sum average of those five people. Manywhere they are at and even start on social
of these people may either hurt you or help you,networking sites. Many times they will notify you of
depending on who they are. If you are looking tospecial events. When I wanted to become a public
becoming a millionaire, then hanging around millionairesspeaker, I associated with other speakers. I started
will obviously help you. On the other hand, if you areout at a Toastmasters International meeting and
hanging around people with a criminal mindset whothen moved up from there.
happen to be millionaires, then you'll tend to take onFind out where you want your life to go and who
their ways.you need to associate with in order to get there.
The Power of Association is one of the things thatCreate a plan that towards that goal which will include
have helped keep humans thriving throughout time.meeting your future associates. Finally start to take
We come together in communities and developimmediate action to make it happen.
strong bonds that serve each other. Loners tend notOne thing you should remember, if you really want to
to survive or even thrive for very long. People whoget to where you want to go, you may have to
are looking to move up in the world will gravitateleave some of your current associates - including
towards those groups they feel are more influential.your friends. Think about this, okay? I wish you the
If you are looking to change yourself for the better,best as you make this transition.
then start associating with the kind of people you'd