| We attend long years upon long years in school, so | | | | yourself after someone you know who is |
| much that the number of years we spend in | | | | socially-popular. Recognize that it is really a learned |
| academic pursuit amounts to a great percentage of | | | | skill, that it is a issue that we can do something |
| our lives. But how many years do we spend on | | | | about it. There a lot of books out there that teaches |
| learning how to socialise and liking someone else? | | | | the basics and attractions and relationships, and the |
| Zero. There is zero importance put on such a subject | | | | library is a good place to get started with. |
| which society appreciates but has yet to put a dollar | | | | Not knowing how to connect to other people is a |
| value to. Social aspects of life are important. Simply | | | | serious problem. In school,the person will not know |
| being popular opens up choices and opportunities. We | | | | how to make friends and goes through a lonely |
| dedicate time to relationships like no other matters | | | | school life. At the end of it, the student will face a |
| on Earth. Since we have to face people and manage | | | | very low self-esteem. At work, the socially illiterate |
| our relationships with them on a daily basis, why are | | | | employee will be a outcast as he/she cannot |
| we not being taught about them in school? | | | | communicate effective what they want and are also |
| In this age, are we still telling ourselves that being a | | | | unable to understand the colleagues' feelings. "Social |
| social person comes naturally? Are we still pretending | | | | illiteracy" is common and it should not come across as |
| it is a innate skill instead of something that can be | | | | surprising.How will we expect a good result from a |
| learned? In today's world,there are still a lot of single | | | | subject that is never properly taught? |
| people. They have a job and good personalities but | | | | It is possible to learn how to start and build |
| has yet to be able to find someone to fall in love | | | | relationships, just like anything else in the world, with |
| with. This is a problem that no ones seems to be | | | | good attitude and efforts. The more we learn,the |
| solving. We need an understanding of how to love | | | | more mistakes we can avoid and the more accepted |
| another and get another to love us. Beyond that, we | | | | we will become. The hard fact is we will have to face |
| have to learn how to keep the relationship going | | | | relationships anyway, so why not start learning about |
| steady. A lot can be learned about building | | | | something that we have to touch on on a |
| relationships through learning from books or modeling | | | | day-to-day basis? |