| What happens when you want to play the artist in | | | | is; to get her! |
| the seduction game? - that is, when you're searching | | | | In this case, i would advise you to use the deflection |
| actively for a girl you'd like to hook-up with? I have | | | | theory to solve this problem. Turning this situation |
| experienced it many times, and more men in | | | | involves finding something else that you can |
| thousands are still experiencing it today when they | | | | concentrate on, thus turning your attention from her, |
| themselves are out playing the game. This is how it | | | | effectively lowering the psychological high level she |
| happens normally: When in a group with a couple of | | | | had put herself on. You can do this by concentrating |
| girls, taking lunch, having a drink or in a party, you | | | | on one of her friends instead. This is deflection |
| may happen to set your eyes on one particular girl. | | | | theory at its best. This is the best way to challenge |
| You feel that you should make something happen | | | | he ego, give her friends even more attention and |
| between the two of you, that is a little closeness, | | | | concentration and the girl you are interested in will |
| But then you realize she is hard to come close to her | | | | start to fight, albeit subconsciously to regain her |
| yet she smiles every time you make a joke. She is | | | | elevated position, she might start being more playful |
| nice, polite, and looks at you straight in the eye yet | | | | and attentive. she could even start flirting with you. i |
| she does not talk to you directly, know for sure that | | | | have been in this situation, so i know. She feels she |
| you should start using the infamous deflection theory | | | | cannot have you so she fights for you the more. |
| on her. | | | | Deep inside yourself you know she is the hottest of |
| Does this happen because she doesn't like you or | | | | the group and its her that you want. Using deflection |
| because you are not her type, no! There must be a | | | | theory challenges her so much that she feels a |
| reason, a very special reason, something to do with | | | | strong desire to win back your attention. This is all |
| psychology and the social set up that you two | | | | what you had all along wanted. |
| happen to be. You see when you suddenly express | | | | This is how deflection theory works in a nutshell: |
| interest in this girl as good looking as she may be, | | | | Using eye contact when chatting to all of the girls. |
| you are in actual sense imploring her ego and her self | | | | but, when chatting to your target girl, glance away |
| esteem and actualization. One thing is for sure, she | | | | occasionally to one of the other ladies and give a |
| knows you have identified her already and that you | | | | faint smile and then look back at your girl. This starts |
| are interested in her. At this point in time she feels | | | | an urgent sense of competition in the mind of the girl |
| great and elevated to a higher level that the friends | | | | that you are really interested in. This makes her fight |
| she is accompanying. What she knows is this; If she | | | | for your attention. Or you could make some physical |
| reciprocates the interest and flirts with you, her | | | | contact with one of her friends by touching the top |
| friends might notice these and she might lose the | | | | of her folded knee, then retracting back. But you |
| position of importance she might have gained, she | | | | have to be careful in this one. I would not want you |
| therefore maintains "am too hard to get" stand. But | | | | to lose the war. |
| you know your mission has to be accomplished, that | | | | |