How to Get That One Special Girl - Part 1 - The Abundance Mindset

Since starting My Website I've noticed that there is aevery single time I've seen a guy flirt and date more
serious abundance of guys out there who have 'thisthan one girl at once, each girl thinks "We'll this guy is
one girl', the one amazing girl who eclipses all others infun and interesting, and I think he may be seeing
every sector of life and they *must* have. Becauseother girls, I don't want that, I want him to be ALL
this is such a huge problem I've decided to dedicateMINE!", and they start working harder than ever in an
create a full series to help all guys stuck in a similarattempt to show off how good they are, seeking his
rut.validation and attempting to appease him, rather than
If this is you, and you would really like a certainthe other way around.
someone special to be in your life then listen upSo how do you actually go about building this
closely, I've got some good news and some badabundance mentality? We'll the easiest way by far is...
news for you:to have an abundance of women in your life. Now
The good news is that you can have any girl youthe great thing about this is that it doesn't have to
want.be girls you're dating, in fact, you don't even have to
The bad news is that you must realize this and liveknow them; you simply need to talk to a lot of
this reality of being able to date and attract any girl,women. Talk to them on the train/bus, waiting for
which means not chasing just one girl. Confused?the train/bus, at work, at school, out at pubs/club, at
Don't worry, all will be revealed.the shops.
Today I'm going to teach what is known as anYou know who the best women to talk to are? The
abundance mindset, it's a way of going about lifefriends of the girl you like. Not only do you get to
where you simply know there are millions of womenmeet more women (who knows they may even be
out there and there are always more fish in the sea.more amazing than the girl you like), but the girl you
It is that amazing plateau up in the sky where youhave feelings for will see that you're not completely
realize, unlike the majority of guys, that you don'tsocial awkward and will even start becoming jealous
need just one girl, you also feel that sense of peaceof her friends getting along with you, then will want
knowing that if the girl you desire doesn't like youto know you better too.
back, your life isn't over, in fact when you have thisThe reason why you need to talk to them is that
mindset you'll probably bounce back happier thanwhen you are actually talking to them they sort of
ever.become *real*. While before when you are simply
The Abundance Mindsetobserving women they seem like objects outside of
The Abundance mindset is in my opinion, the mostyour reality, like they are on TV or in the movies,
crucial skill you can ever have in attracting womenand when they are outside of your reality they aren't
into your life, whether you simply want to attractcontributing to your abundance mindset.
one girl, or date hundreds. Having a mindset ofOnce you start talking to women of all walks of life
complete abundance just has a huge effect on yourevery single day you start to notice just how many
life in every area, especially with women. No longerof them there are around you, and you also begin to
do you have to feel there is only one girl for you, orsee that perhaps there are even more amazing girls
your life is over. No longer will you live in fear ofthan your *one special girl* out there for you. If
rejection or screwing up.there aren't (and please don't say "Oh there aren't
An Abundance mentality is where you know thereany girls as amazing as this one" if you hardly ever
are over 2 million women just in your city alone! Andtalk to other women) then of course you can always
over 3 billion worldwide, and with that you realizehave your one special girl, and she will love you more
that you have limitless potential, you are never everthan ever for not treating her like you're her slave or
going to run out of women to talk to, or haveher love puppy that hangs around constantly being
relationships with, and more than likely there isclingy and annoying.
always going to be a better girl out there for you.It really is hard to imagine having this mindset when
When you start to realize this you become lessyou don't have it already, and you may feel some
attached to that *one girl* and you start to realizeresistance to thinking this way, as you still have this
the potential in women all around you.feeling that your one special girl is better than every
It is at this point that women notice you becomingother girl out there. Let me tell you as someone
more of a lone warrior, a man who doesn't needwho's been in the same position of having this one
women for validation, and they start becoming moregirl that I loved and adored who never loved me
attracted to you. You will probably also notice the girlback for over 2 years; it's amazing how much
you're interested in becoming far more interested indifferent life is after adopting this abundance
you than before when you were clingy, needy, andmentality. Since I lost touch with that one special girl
attempting to please her in every way.I've since met and dated many many equally or even
Believe it or not I actually used to have a beliefmore special girls who all are amazing in different
about women that many men seem to have, and itways, and I'd have to say I feel far, far happier now
went something like this "I don't want to talk to orthan I ever was when I was chasing that one girl.
flirt with other women because the one girl I'mSo get out there, talk to other girls and start to
interested in will then become upset and not want torealize that you can have any girl you desire, it is
talk to me, and I will never have a chance with her".completely counter-intuitive but it is by far the best
I can tell you right now that this belief is completelyand easiest way to gather interest from that girl that
and utterly false. Never in my life have I had thatdesires you.
happen to me or anyone else I know. In fact nearly