How to Be a Successful Adult Student - A Willingness to Try

When looking at a potential course of action, mosttaking out insurance, having the car inspected before
people are torn between two positions: an eagernesspurchase, and so on. Once these have been
to do something better and a fear of failure. Sadly,determined, then you can determine the gains of
most people choose to emphasize the fear of failure.having a new car, such as increased transportation
This is the driving force behind insurance, behind thereliability, increased mileage, reduction of breakdown
"CYA" maneuvers, and behind procrastination. Theevents, and so on. Based on the comparison of
saying "Taking care of number one" is an expressionthese two categories (risk and gain), the decision to
of fear for myself over whatever is being proposed.act can be made.
A student who operates from a fear of failure willRisk in Education
often times receive exactly what she is fearing.While it is relatively easy to make this calculation
An attitude of willingness to try is necessary for anwhen considering whether to buy a car, making an
adult student. Unlike grade school, in adult educationeffort like becoming an adult student is much more
the possibility of failure must be accepted but notdifficult. The problem is that the factors are not as
given a controlling influence. A student must be willingclearly defined, in most cases, so the numbers are
to learn new ideas, new techniques, and newnot as understandable. Instead, one is faced with an
philosophies. The student must be willing to listen tounknown future, which makes for decisions based on
the instructor and to do things the way theemotion rather than factual evidence. So, while risk
instructor says rather than the way he has done it inmanagement is useful in many cases, most people
the past. Trying out something new should be theabandon it when faced with life altering decisions.
norm for students, not something different.They feel they cannot make a rational decision, so
Understanding Riskthey make an emotional decision, and that means
To accomplish anything worthwhile, there must bethat the stronger emotion controls the decision.
risk. Risk can be measured by two factors: how likelyCultural Emotion
failure is and how much of an impact failure wouldOnce the decision enters the emotional stage, the
have. These two factors can be determined in anyhistory and social culture become a very strong
number of ways, from a numerical scale to a scale ofinfluence. Our society currently emphasizes the
condition such as "High", "Medium", and "Low."negative results rather than the positive results,
What I have found to be useful is a numerical scalewhich can lead to a darker picture than it should. This
from 1 to 10. The two factors are given a numericalemphasis can be seen by the prevalence of news
rating, with 1 being minimal and 10 being maximal. Thestories, the use of insurance, the incessant clamor of
risk factor is the product of these two numbers,disclaimers, and the use of negative statistics.
generating a number from 1 to 100. The goal of riskHowever, this picture is unnecessarily negative. By
management is to reduce the risk factor. This can bemanaging the risk, positive results are often the norm
done by either reducing the possibility of failure or byrather than the exception. For example, most
reducing its impact or both.insurance policies do not have claims made against
Once the risk factor has been determined, then thethem. Most products and manufacturers are not
gain factor must be determined. In financial terms,taken to court, meaning that the role of disclaimers is
this comparison is called the return on risk ratio. Afternegated. Most people, particularly in the USA, are
this ratio is determined, the person can then decide,leading lives with a higher standard of living than ever
based on reality, whether to act or not.before. By looking at the evidence, a person should
For example, say you are looking at buying a newhave a positive expectation rather than a negative
car. Some of the risks involved are that the car willone when considering a new action.
break down after you buy it, that you will not beIn School
able to make the payments, and that the car will beIf you believe that life is positive, then you are willing
stolen. In each case, you can determine how likely itto take chances. You are willing to try something
is that the problem will occur; for purposes, younew, something different. The willingness is only
determine the likelihood of the car breaking down isenhanced by the presence of the instructor, who is
4, the chance of you not making the payments is 1,leading you into this new area. By trying a new idea
and the chance the car is stolen is 6. The impact ofor a new technique, the student gains experience
each of these can be determined as well; for the carand can make better use of opportunities in the
breaking down, the impact is 3 (the time and moneyfuture. Furthermore, trying something new in school is
of repairs), for not making the payments 3 (creditmuch less riskier (because of the reduced impact)
rating), and for the car being stolen 4 (the price ofthan at work or in life, so the rewards are that much
the car). To manage these risks, you can do thingsmore likely to occur.
to mitigate both the chance and the impact, such as