| Affair counseling - Either you or your spouse has had | | | | caused the affair to happen. Once you know what |
| an affair. Unfortunately, this happens all too often. | | | | the problem is, you can learn how to correct it, and |
| Too many times, affairs totally destroy marriages. | | | | save your marriage. |
| Not because of the affair itself, but because couples | | | | If you are the one that cheated on your spouse, |
| don't know how to go about correcting the situation, | | | | simply saying you're sorry, or it won't happen again, |
| in order to save the marriage. Your marriage does | | | | isn't going to do anything. You have to find ways to |
| not have to end! | | | | prove that you can be trusted again. This won't be |
| If you've cheated on your spouse, there are ways | | | | easy, but you must do it, to stop a divorce from |
| to mend your marriage. Thousands of couples work | | | | happening. |
| through this, and their marriage not only survives, but | | | | Here's a little secret that you can use right now, and |
| the couple develops a much stronger bond, in the | | | | you will see at least a little improvement in your |
| process. This is probably because they are forced to | | | | relationship. |
| face a horrible situation, and they are forced to work | | | | Since trust is such an important part of a marriage, |
| TOGETHER, to save their marriage. | | | | you have to start showing your spouse that they |
| Trust is a big part of marriage. Once trust is broken, | | | | CAN trust you. Take it step by step, little by little. |
| trying to continue with the marriage becomes very | | | | When you say you will do something, you absolutely |
| hard. The sooner the two of you deal with the | | | | MUST do it! Right now, even the smallest thing done |
| problem, and try to work things out, the better | | | | wrong will send your marriage further towards |
| chance you will have of saving your marriage. You | | | | divorce. By simply doing something you say you are |
| CAN stop a divorce from happening, if you are willing | | | | going to do, you are showing your spouse that you |
| to put the time and effort into it. | | | | are trying to make things right again. |
| Before you even start trying to save the marriage, | | | | Please keep in mind that this won't be easy. This is |
| you have to take a close look at the reason or | | | | going to take time and work. But isn't your marriage |
| reasons that the affair happened in the first place. Is | | | | worth working for? I believe you think it is, or else |
| something missing from your marriage? As time goes | | | | you wouldn't be reading this right now. |
| on, married couples tend to get comfortable in the | | | | Give your spouse the time that he or she needs to |
| marriage. | | | | heal. Affairs cause much emotional pain, and only time |
| Do your lifestyles require a lot of time spent away | | | | will heal that. Allow them adequate time and space, |
| from each other? If so, you have to try to find | | | | and keep doing little things that will show them that |
| ways to spend quality time together. You have to | | | | you realize that you have made a horrible mistake, |
| bring back the emotional and physical love back into | | | | and that you are trying your best to save the |
| your marriage. | | | | marriage. |
| This is the first step in affair counseling. Finding what | | | | |